Chinese women are sweet! They know that looking beautiful and being feminine is what gives them power and value in their culture. They leverage this as much as possible, which is necessary, as typically girls can’t yet earn as much money as guys in Mainland China. Chinese girls have this particular thing they do called 撒娇 (sa jiao is the pinyin for those of you awesome enough to be studying Chinese) which means to behave in a cutesy way, usually in a slightly immature way, to make the guy do what they want. Think of a girl trying to persuade a guy to go shopping with her but in a super cute way using the way she speaks, expresses herself, flutters her eyes, etc. In China, guys are more highly valued by their parents because when they get married they will stick around and look after their own parents. In old school China, the wife would join and look after the husband’s family, as well. This is why, sadly, girls in China aren’t given enough credit for their awesomeness.
Unlike the West, everyone has a pretty strongly defined sense of what men and what women should do. This is changing in the bigger cities, though, as more and more women are entering the work force and becoming more independent. Women’s roles in China typically are to rule over the household, organize the husbands money (secret bank accounts are the norm), decide how and what the children study and to also keep herself beautiful. It’s a matriarchal set up and although it may seem that the men are in charge, by and large it’s actually the women who are in charge and they are just giving the men face. As a Foreign guy you won’t usually have to deal with a lot of the drama or issues our Chinese counterparts do (I’d like to send my gratitude out to my Chinese boys), since typically girls who like foreigners also like to look after them as they’re in a foreign country and are usually lost and confused.
China has gone through some changes and a while back sex was a bit of a no no. With the older generation it still kinda is. Even still, at 1.4 billion people they must have been busy. Luckily, because there are so many people here, it is relatively easy to find girls who are experienced or willing to learn. A lot of Asian girls don’t view themselves as very sexual and this is generally the case for most Chinese girls due to a lack of sexual education and the fact that sex is still a pretty taboo thing.
During the time with Chinese culture most of what you see on the outside is just a mask while inside is what’s real. Those of you who have lived in China and embraced it will get what I mean. This means that behind closed doors Chinese girls are quite adventurous and interested in sex. They mostly know very little about it, though, as there only options for learning about sex are talking to friends. This means if you are a Western guy then you probably have more sexual experience than a lot of Chinese girls.
It has to say that Chinese – Are – Excited. In the last decade or so China has gotten very excited about the West and that means that pretty much anything Western is cool, sort of. Western TV shows, English, every expensive brand of luxury item…the Chinese have it. A while back there were some big shifts in culture and that left a bit of a gap. Since then, a weird mixture of money culture and western culture has quickly swept in to fill that gap, especially with the 九零后 (90s ‘jiu ling hou’) generation. That’s also one of the reason that more people want to be Asian American and their parents always want to give birth in America or other western country.
Thank you!
Cheng Li
Unlike the West, everyone has a pretty strongly defined sense of what men and what women should do. This is changing in the bigger cities, though, as more and more women are entering the work force and becoming more independent. Women’s roles in China typically are to rule over the household, organize the husbands money (secret bank accounts are the norm), decide how and what the children study and to also keep herself beautiful. It’s a matriarchal set up and although it may seem that the men are in charge, by and large it’s actually the women who are in charge and they are just giving the men face. As a Foreign guy you won’t usually have to deal with a lot of the drama or issues our Chinese counterparts do (I’d like to send my gratitude out to my Chinese boys), since typically girls who like foreigners also like to look after them as they’re in a foreign country and are usually lost and confused.
China has gone through some changes and a while back sex was a bit of a no no. With the older generation it still kinda is. Even still, at 1.4 billion people they must have been busy. Luckily, because there are so many people here, it is relatively easy to find girls who are experienced or willing to learn. A lot of Asian girls don’t view themselves as very sexual and this is generally the case for most Chinese girls due to a lack of sexual education and the fact that sex is still a pretty taboo thing.
During the time with Chinese culture most of what you see on the outside is just a mask while inside is what’s real. Those of you who have lived in China and embraced it will get what I mean. This means that behind closed doors Chinese girls are quite adventurous and interested in sex. They mostly know very little about it, though, as there only options for learning about sex are talking to friends. This means if you are a Western guy then you probably have more sexual experience than a lot of Chinese girls.
It has to say that Chinese – Are – Excited. In the last decade or so China has gotten very excited about the West and that means that pretty much anything Western is cool, sort of. Western TV shows, English, every expensive brand of luxury item…the Chinese have it. A while back there were some big shifts in culture and that left a bit of a gap. Since then, a weird mixture of money culture and western culture has quickly swept in to fill that gap, especially with the 九零后 (90s ‘jiu ling hou’) generation. That’s also one of the reason that more people want to be Asian American and their parents always want to give birth in America or other western country.
Thank you!
Cheng Li